🌿Top 3 Herbs For Stress

Herbs have been used for centuries as a natural way to de-stress the mind and body. In fact, this Healthline article titled, “A Dietitian’s Picks of the 6 Best Herbs to Help Manage Anxiety” by Kelsey Kunik, RDN and Eleesha Lockett, MS reports that in a review of over 100 studies performed over a 20-year period, 45% of the outcomes showed tangible, favourable results. Let’s take a closer look at my top 3 herbs for stress relief, management and adaptability.
Ashwagandha
An adaptogen that helps the body adapt to stress (and reduce long-term harm from said stress), ashwagandha works by modulating the body’s central stress response system. It achieves this by helping to slow down overactive, cortisol-triggering brain signals, and simultaneously helping your body to recover from stress.
There may be more- while more research is still needed to confirm, Ashwagandha is also believed to:
- Help reduce blood sugar levels.
- Have anti-inflammatory properties.
- Support focus and cognitive performance
- And more! (Learn more about Ashwagandha here)
Passionflower
Passionflower is thought to increase GABA (a neurotransmitter that helps regulate mood, calm nervous tension, and promote relaxation). This is believed to help slow brain activity, support more restful sleep, and ease anxiety, but is also believed to:
- Promote calm alertness without sedation
- Help relieve tension-related digestive issues
- Help ease menopausal mood swings and irritability
- Learn more about passionflower here
Lemon Balm
Lemon Balm is a gentle nervine and carminative herb, often referred to as a “natural mood brightener.” Rosmarinic acid, a compound found in lemon balm, supports the nervous system by promoting GABA activity — the same calming neurotransmitter your brain uses to regulate mood and sleep. (Sound familiar? 😉👆)
In addition to being the Batman to Passionflower’s Robin, lemon balm may also:
- Possess mild antiviral effects, particularly against herpes simplex viruses.
- Improve overall emotional well-being.
- Help neutralize free radicals
- Learn more about lemon balm here
Synergies
Now that we’ve covered each herb individually, let’s explore how they work together. Together, Ashwagandha, Passionflower, and Lemon Balm create a balanced, three-layered approach to easing stress and anxiety.
Ashwagandha works at the root (pun intended 🤪) — regulating cortisol and strengthening the body’s stress response over time- essentially doubling a resilience tool. Passionflower helps calm racing thoughts and restlessness by supporting GABA activity in the brain, promoting a sense of gentle relaxation without sedation. Meanwhile, Lemon Balm soothes the nervous system, easing tension and uplifting mood with its mild, refreshing aroma and natural calming compounds.
When combined, these herbs complement each other beautifully — restoring both mental calm and physical resilience, making it easier to unwind, rest deeply, and face daily stress with clarity, focus and steadiness.
You can use these herbs individually or blend them for a more rounded effect. A soothing herbal tea made with lemon balm, passionflower, and a touch of ashwagandha root offers gentle daytime calm or a peaceful bedtime wind-down. If you prefer tinctures, these herbs pair well in equal parts for a balanced stress-support formula — just start small and adjust as needed.
Start small, with one of the tea recipes below. Once you know how your body responds, work up to the DIY Herbal Stress Relief Kit outlined at the bottom of this blog post.
🌞Calming Focus Tea (Daytime Blend)
Purpose: Gently reduces stress and anxiety while maintaining alertness — ideal for busy mornings or workdays.
Ingredients:
- 1 tsp lemon balm (dried)
- ½ tsp ashwagandha root (dried or powdered)
- ½ tsp passionflower (dried)
- 1 slice of fresh ginger (optional, for energy and digestion)
Instructions:
- Simmer ashwagandha root in 1½ cups water for 15 minutes.
- Remove from heat and add lemon balm, passionflower, and ginger.
- Steep 10 minutes, strain, and enjoy with a touch of honey if desired
🌙Restful Mind Tea (Bedtime Blend)
Purpose: Promotes deep, restorative sleep by relaxing both the body and mind.
Ingredients:
- 1 tsp lemon balm
- 1 tsp passionflower
- ½ tsp ashwagandha powder
- 1 cup warm milk (dairy or oat milk for creaminess)
- Pinch of cinnamon or nutmeg (optional)
Instructions:
- Gently warm the milk (don’t boil).
- Stir in herbs and spices; steep 10–15 minutes, then strain.
- Sweeten lightly with honey.
🌿 DIY Herbal Stress Relief Kit
A gentle way to bring herbal calm into your daily routine.
Core Herbs
Ashwagandha — Builds resilience and balances stress response.
Lemon Balm — Uplifts mood and soothes anxious energy.
Passionflower — Calms the mind and supports sleep.
Chamomile — Eases tension and digestion.
Lavender — Relaxes both mind and body
🌙 Evening Calm Tea:
Lemon balm + chamomile + passionflower (equal parts).
Steep 1 tbsp per cup, 10 minutes covered.
💆♀️ Relax & Restore Oil:
2 oz carrier oil + 6 drops lavender + 4 drops chamomile essential oil.
Apply to wrists, neck, or temples.
🍯 Herbal Honey for Nerves:
Fill a jar with dried lemon balm + chamomile, cover with honey, infuse 2–4 weeks.
Storage Tips
- Store herbs in airtight jars away from light.
- Replace yearly for best potency.
- Label with name + date for easy tracking.
✨ For the full herbal stress kit guide and deeper recipe breakdown, visit our upcoming blog post — coming soon to Still Earth Botanicals.
Disclaimer
This article is for informational and educational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice. Learn more.
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📚 Sources
- Healthline: A Dietitian’s Picks of the 6 Best Herbs to Help Manage Anxiety Herbs for Anxiety
- PubMed: Clinical Efficacy and Tolerability of Melissa officinalis (Lemon Balm)
- Healthline: Lemon Balm Uses, Benefits, and More
- WebMD: Lemon Balm Overview, Uses & Side Effects
- The Herb Society of America: Lemon Balm Fact Sheet (PDF)
- National Institute of Health: Passionflower
- PubMed: Passiflora incarnata & Anxiety Studies
- Healthline: Passionflower Benefits
- Mount Sinai: Passionflower Monograph
- NCCIH: Ashwagandha
- PubMed: Ashwagandha
- Healthline: Ashwagandha
- Mount Sinai: Ashwagandha
- Ancient Remedies Revived A Complete Guide to Herbal Medicine and Natural Healing by Shanon Greef & Natalie Willow
